Monday, October 28, 2013

Dengue Fever & French Cheese don't mix

Dengue fever coincided with a business trip to Paris... so my symptoms while apparent from the start masked themselves to me as having jetlag! After 3 days I realized that something was just not right with me…the “jetlag” got worse! 

Dengue fever is a tricky illness. You feel weird but since your throat isn’t sore and you have no runny nose, you must be fine!... But then it gets worse.

After talking with many friends here in Chiang Mai that have had it, there is a huge spectrum of severity. Many people require a hospital stay. I did not. However, my symptoms were pretty severe:

At the onset 
  • I had a difficult time sleeping
  • I developed a fever and was so cold! Coming from warm Chiang Mai, Thailand to “cold” Paris, France, I thought the cool air just didn’t agree with me!
  • I began waking in the night soaked in sweat... several times at night.
  • I was surrounded by rich cheeses, paté, wine, and bread... but I could hardly eat a thing.
  • my eyes had difficulty focusing giving me terrible headaches every time I looked around or stared at my computer too long. 

4 days after developing the fever
  • I woke up feeling immediately sick to my stomach. In the time it took to get from my bed to the bathroom I was drenched in sweat and vomited. 
  • I developed a terrible rash beginning on my arms and legs. As the days went on, it extended all over my body (even the palms of my hands), becoming itchy and painful.
  • I began to feel very weak and slow… which was very annoying because I had to travel home.
  • Another weird symptom about Dengue is the emotional toll it takes! I began to feel very anxious and upset. Although I tried not to show it to my colleagues, I just wanted to go home and was really struggling to keep it together. However, arriving home did not solve the problem of emotional instability. Unfortunately this continues long after the rash goes away.

Arriving home to Chiang Mai
After a difficult journey home (thank goodness for aisle seats allowing me to run to the bathroom) I arrived very relieved… but still very sick. I still had a fever, the rash was getting worse, and despite my efforts to drink lots of water I was becoming very weak and dehydrated.

Mike took me to the hospital where they confirmed my Dengue case with a simple blood test. Thankfully the platelet levels in my blood were not at a serious level (this is what the virus attacks) so I could go home after they gave me an I.V. of liquids to help with my dehydration.

The next few days were spent lying around and sleeping. My fever finally went away but the rash got worse! I was told that this meant I was entering the “recovery stage” however it wasn’t that comforting because my hands and feet were swollen and extremely itchy.

Road to recovery
It’s been over a month now since that pesky skeeter (aka mosquito) bit me. It is amazing how a little creature can wreak havoc in your life! Wear bug repellant friends!!

I am doing well. My rash (for the most part) has gone away. My energy has slowly returned. I can concentrate and focus (for short periods of time) on important tasks. 

I am still a bit emotional and irritable much to Mike’s chagrin. Poor Mike. This too will eventually go away leaving me responsible for my own actions. Darn it! I liked saying “the Dengue made me do it!”


I’m not quite 100% yet but I will be because my appetite is back! Good thing I brought some French cheese home in my carry-on. :)

Tuesday, September 24, 2013

South Thailand summer trip photos

Hello friends,

Recently a friend of me passed a bunch of photos from our summer trip to the south of Thailand (HatYai area). It was a fantastic week of spending time in a village and teaching English at a local school. My friend is quite a talented photographer that captured a bunch of images of me interacting with the villages and children.













My Thai language skills are extremely limited but smiles, patience, and an attitude of humility go very far in this Malay/Thai Muslim community.

I cannot wait to return to this community where no one is a stranger and everyone eats from the same table. They share their crops, the workload, the care for children, and the hardships of life.

Monday, April 1, 2013

Easter scaled down...

The world "loves" Christmas. They decorate with twinkly lights and fake trees. In fact one company just took down their HOT-PINK 30-FOOT tree just a few weeks ago! Christmas is different wherever you celebrate it... but it is there. You see it happening around you.

Unlike Christmas these days, Easter is NOT a worldwide holiday... There is not a plastic egg in this town! There are no bunnies on the street corner or in the mall. Easter, is drastically different and is non-existent in many places.

Easter is special. Here are a few pics of our Easter holidays over the last few years. As you will see, they range from BIG to cold to hot to... atypical.

2005:









2008:





2010:


2011:









2013 was celebrated with an impromptu egg hunt in our front yard (if you are wondering the fruit hanging behind them is called Jack Fruit- it is soooo good):



With love & blessings,
DJ and the Wandering Rileys

Location:แก้วนวรัฐ ซอย 2,Wat Ket,Thailand

Tuesday, March 26, 2013

This last month was a wash!... And yet...

There is just so many things going on but that is just life right? We are always shuffling between several roles, holding many balls in the air, praying we don't get sick so it doesn't all come crashing down.

If this sounds depressing its not meant to be! Truthfully I like it that way. My only problem is keeping track of what is a priority and what is not. What is helpful and what is not. When the schedule changes how do you hold on?!

For example, my kids were mostly out of school for the last month! I was just getting used to the fact that I had time to think then BAM! We take a week to do a conference here, go off for an assignment there, then the school closes for "fall break"... And I am left saying "ok, I guess I'll pretty much call this month a wash!

I was totally out of sync, watching my days and opportunities fly by in a blur of kids and sticky hands. Then something happened! I realized that my kids just happen to be one of my greatest assets! We went to the market, shopped for art supplies, and made lots of new friends! We laughed, ate strange new foods, and nearly bought a bird instead of markers.



This is not a typical mom post where she praises her kids and talks about how great and special they are... well maybe it is.

With love & blessings,
DJ and the Wandering Rileys

Location:แก้วนวรัฐ ซอย 3,Wat Ket,Thailand

Sunday, December 16, 2012

Truer words have never been spoken

At bedtime last night, my son prayed "God, please stop the bad people from killing with guns and drugs and knives and machetes. But God teach them about Jesus so they can stop doing those things."

Truer words have never been spoken- especially the part about machetes. ;)

Speaking as someone who has been scarred by a shooting tragedy, I am for more gun control in the US. BUT what really needs to happen is people putting themselves out there by sharing about Jesus coming to this crazy, depraved world to save us from hopelessness and give us life. Eternal life.

That is the hope for our country. That is the hope for this life.


With love & blessings,
DJ and the Wandering Rileys

Location:แก้วนวรัฐ ซอย 3,Wat Ket,Thailand

Wednesday, November 14, 2012

5th Language, 1st Love

Last week I began studying my 5th language. It hardly seems possible since I am so NOT a student.

However, I find I am we'll suited to learning languages- I enjoy meeting and spending time with people from cultures other than my own. I like to talk. I like to laugh... usually at myself as I attempt a new word or sound. I like to use the language by going out and trying (sometimes failing) new words and phrases. I also love music- and languages are VERY musical. You must listen to the musical qualities of language and do your best to mimic the sounds exactly. Fun right?! I think so!

So, as I said, I began studying my 5th language. But this just isn't any language. This is the language my heart has desired to learn for over 10 years. I just didn't have the opportunity until now.

Have you guessed which one yet? If you know me, you won't need to guess for long.





Beginning this journey gives me such joy- I am so thankful that the Father grants the desires of our hearts. Maybe not the timing we would like but we need to trust that His timing is perfect!

May His timing and blessings give you joy today!
Daniela

Location:แก้วนวรัฐ ซอย 3,Wat Ket,Thailand

Saturday, September 22, 2012

Stay Cool.




I came across this simple message recently and at first I was thinking "wow! This really applies to my life over the last few years".

After all, if I can live in the vast number of situations and scenarios and settings as I have since Susi was born and still be positive about life and its future trajectory, I must be cool. Not freeze dried but cool.

However, I have also discovered that "staying cool" needs to also apply to my daily life... Something that I am quite sure I haven't worked out. Need proof? Just ride with me here in Thailand when we are trying to find a friends house. Without fail I am near tears every time by the time we arrive there (if we arrive at all). Many roads don't have names and landmarks are always changing...and I can no longer rely upon my iPhone map to get me there!!

For example, here are the directions we most recently attempted:
North on Mae Jo road through Mae Jo university area. At km11 (white ground post on right side of road....11 will be facing road side) pass the first U-turn and then take the 2nd U-Turn. Then take the 1st left heading east toward the mountains. Travel 6km crossing a canal and a rainbow fence. At the 'y' ....top of an incline, keep left and continue straight to a sharp left turn and a gate entering a mango orchard. Travel straight into the orchard keeping right next to the mountain. Follow road to our house. Call whenever you need to!

These directions are pretty typical. Notice after the first sentence there are no street names. Well, we found the "rainbow fence" but after that we were completely lost... For an hour... With no cell reception so we couldn't even call them! Needless to say, my ability to "stay cool" was left on the rainbow fence an hour back.

Well, we got there after our friend drove out looking for us. A little embarrassing. A little humbling. Perhaps exactly what I need.

Stay cool DJ. Stay cool.

With love & blessings,
DJ and the Wandering Rileys

Location:Chiang Mai,Thailand